As we step into 2025, one phrase is shaping how I approach the new year: Perfect is the enemy of good.
Like many, I’ve started previous years with big resolutions, only to watch them unravel by February.
Why? Because I set the bar so high that a single misstep felt like failure.
This year, I’m doing things differently—focusing on small, consistent steps rather than perfection.
Here’s what I’ve learned:
- Big changes stick better when they’re gradual. A five-minute habit is more sustainable than a huge masterplan for something you've never done before.
- Breaking tasks into smaller steps reduces overwhelm. For my next book, it could mean writing three paragraphs a day instead of a full chapter.
- Failure isn’t the end—it’s feedback. Mistakes teach us what doesn’t work and how to adjust.
Interestingly, the Catholic Church offers a powerful reminder of this same idea at the start of each year. On January 1, Catholics celebrate the feast of Mary, the Mother of God.
One small step
In the basilica of Santa Maria Maggiore in Rome, a mosaic depicts Mary crowned by her Son, surrounded by stars and angels. Yet Mary’s life was anything but grandiose. Her greatness began with a single “yes” to God—one small step of trust and humility.
This is a reminder for us, too: greatness often starts small. The steps we take today, however modest, can lead to something far greater over time.
Let go of perfectionism
So, if you’re overwhelmed by resolutions or held back by perfectionism, take heart. Focus on progress, not perfection. Start small, and let each step build on the last.
What’s one small step you’re taking today? Let’s share and support each other as we move into the new year.
Listen to my full reflections on this in my latest podcast here.
Here’s to a year of grace, growth, and progress—one step at a time.
Happy New Year!
Fr. Roderick Vonhögen
P.S.: I am organizing a free webinar for parish members and religious organizations on how to grow your online impact and your social media following in 2025.
DATE: Thursday, January 9 at 8 PM CET.
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